NAZARIYA

Ek din sir class mein padha rahe they ki peechhe se do bachon ke  larane ki awaaz aai sir ne gusse mein unhe dant te hue kha ki tum log kyon lar rahe ho to roshan ne kha sir karan apni baat pe ara hua hai aur meri baat nahi sun rha jab ki iski baat bilkul galat hai.

Itne mein karan ne kha ki sir iski baat sunanane ka koi fayada nahi kyon ki iski baat galat hai. Sir ne unhe phir dantte hua kha …tum dono mere pass awo aur un dono ko apne table ke dono side khara kar dia  aur ek ball nikaali aur table ke beech mein rakh diya, sir ne karan se puchha batao ki iss ball ka colour kya hai..karan ne kha sir white hai.

Phir roshan se puchha ki tum batao ki iss ball ka colour kya hai .to roshan ne kha sir red hai.dono apne jawaab ko lekar confident they ..unka jawaab sahi  bhi tha aur iss baar dono phir bahas karane lage.

 Sir ne unhe phir danta aur dono ko apni jagah ek dusare se change karne ke liye kha aur phir dubara un se puchha ki ab tum dono phir se colour batao iss baar dono ka jawaab alag tha karan ne red aur roshan ne white kha.phir sir gambhir hote hue bole bachon tum apni jagah sahi ho par.

jaise iss ball ke do pahlu hai vaise hi tumhari kahi bato ke matlab ke bhi do pahlu hai .bas hamara nazariya unhe jiss ki pahlu ko lekar hota hai humein wo sahi lagata hai .

Aise hi hamaari real life mein jab hum kissi se baat karate hai tab kai baar mat bhed shuru ho ta hai wo issi karan hota hai ki hum dusre pahlu ko samajhane ki koshish nahi karte aur apne nazariye ke hisaab se react karate hai.

 Jo ki hamarre kharaab communication skill ko darshata hai. Iss liye humein dusare ke pahlu ko janane ki bhikoshish karani chahiye. Aisa karne se na hamara communication skill sudharta hai balki hamaara relation bhi achha hote hai.

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